Never Accept A Cheap Thrill

Date published: Wednesday 4th of May 2016

Today's Inside Scoop is one for the guys (although, I dare say women might find this information useful too!), and it's an insider tip that'll help to raise your vibrational levels as well as your self-esteem levels.

I want to talk about cheap thrills and today I want to ask the question, do you accept cheap thrills? Let's find out!

SCENARIO 1: You're in a restaurant. There's a really attractive waitress serving at the table across from where you're seated. As she's serving the other customer a bowl of hot soup, she leans forward and - thanks to a few loose buttons - suddenly you can see right down her top. Do you treat this as an opportunity to ogle with delight? You've just accepted a cheap thrill.

SCENARIO 2: You're sitting in a hairdressers (or a barbershop, if you're macho like me!), waiting to get your annual haircut. There's two people working in this barbershop (let's stick with "barbershop"). One of the staff members is a guy. The other person working there is an attractive women. Both of them are doing the same job. As you sit there, you're not sure who's going to cut your hair, but you're desperately hoping that it'll be the attractive woman. Guess what? You've just accepted a cheap thrill.

SCENARIO 3: A client invites you to a conference. However, it turns out that this particular event has much more men than women. For this particular event, your client's company has sent seven guys and only one woman. Afterwards, a group of you head to a restaurant for a meal. Everybody is giving the woman lots of attention. After all, she's very attractive and she's the only woman there. You know that you're quite a funny and charming guy, so you decide to "compete" with the other guys for the attention of this female. Guess what? You've just accepted a cheap thrill.

Now, as a point of clarification - I don't think there's anything morally wrong with looking at women, admiring women, lavishing attention upon women or even having lustful thoughts about women. I mean, if you disagree then that's cool. However, the whole moral/religious angle is something that I'm eager to avoid right now. Instead, I want to focus on the Insider perspective. Since you are an Insider, I thought it would be helpful to let you know the inside scoop as far as this kind of thing goes.

You see, when you accept cheap thrills a couple of interesting things happen. First of all, at a subconscious level, you self-esteem is lowered. Now, it may not be dramatic and it may not even be noticeable. However, here's the vibe: when you keep that kind of behaviour going over and over again - until the point of habit then your self-esteem will certainly suffer. The consequences of you having low self-esteem can be catastrophic in terms of achieving your dreams and being the very best person that you can be.

However, there's something else that happens when you accept a cheap thrill. You see, when you go ahead and accept a cheap thrill your vibrational level is lowered. People who have low vibrational levels are... for want of a better word... unlucky. They don't seem to get many breaks in life. Everything seems like an uphill struggle. They always seem to have doors slammed in their face. I know about this because I have lived with low vibrational levels for most of my adult life. I understand what we're up against, all too well.

Here's the good news. When you refuse to accept cheap thrills and you choose the higher ground over and over again, your vibrational levels will start to increase. With increased (or, let's say "higher") vibrational levels you'll feel more energised. You'll feel more focused. You'll feel more confident. You'll feel more in control of your life - instead of just reacting to one adversity after another. You'll be more productive. You'll get more things done. Most importantly of all, when you raise your vibrational levels, people, things and opportunities will start to flood into your life in a way which will be dramatic, exciting and extremely pleasurable. One of the effects which is most interesting of all, is that when you refuse cheap thrills attractive people will come to you! Please read that last sentence again. It's important for you to know this information. So, before you know it, you're going to start receiving more compliments. You'll have attractive people actively coming to you. They will want to hang out with you, they'll want to make friends with you and just generally want to BE with you.

Now, personally speaking, I don't care if you're married, single or anywhere in between. It doesn't matter to me if you're looking for love or not. The feeling of having attractive people being attracted to YOU and lavishing attention on YOU is incredibly empowering. You'll have a spring in your step. You'll be smiling more. You'll look at yourself differently, when you look in the mirror - seeing a more attractive version of you looking back. Ultimately, you'll have higher levels of self-esteem and an overall better and happier experience of life on this planet, which is your temporary home.

So, never accept a cheap thrill. Aim for the higher ground and unlock the magnetic powers of attraction within you.

Peace, love and vegetables.

DC

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